I have a question and it is about masturbation. No, it is not about who or why people masturbate. I know the answer to both. Everybody masturbates; men, women, animals...everybody. Here is my question: Do you think it is wrong to masturbate when you are in a legitimate, long term relationship?
My answer to the question is yes. Now, admittedly I have not been in a relationship in forever, so I masturbated like nobody's business. Hell, nowadays I masturbate simply for the exercise. However, when I was in a relationship I never did. I never felt the need to.
One of the reason why I didn't masturbate is because I felt like it was a form of cheating. Yeah, I know that that's crazy talk but it is still how I felt at the time. Other reasons why I didn't feel the need to masturbate is because when I was in a relationship I was never as horny as I was when I was outside of a relationship, thus the need for sex was not as crucial. Lastly, I always felt like, why should I have to masturbate when I have someone who is suppose to be there to help me for fill those sexual needs.
Seriously, I honestly think that if you are masturbating in a relationship then it is a sign of trouble in that relationship. I mean, think about it. Why should you have to pleasure yourself if you are in a relationship. Sure, I can understand it if that love one is not right there and handy, but if they are in the house with you then they should be there to for fill your sexual needs.
Well, that's my take on the subject. What's yours?
-One Man's Opinion. Peace.